Same Sex Dating

I was not at all nervous about my first girl on girl date. Actually, I was completely fine until we sat down at the table. It seemed like a lil friendly get together, until we officially sat down. Then, it became a date. I learned that blind dates are never fun. Even if you see … Continue reading

I know what GIRLS like…

…Girls like ME. (And, I like girls.) I have been dealing with issues with my sexuality for a while. At first, it was moreso internal than anything else. Then, I would let it slip out on occasions; as far as me following a beautiful pair of legs, hips and butt around the room with my … Continue reading

Reflect HIM

“Let this same attitude and purpose and humble mind be in you that was in Christ Jesus. Let Him be your example in humility” (Philippians 2:5 AMP). The scripture starts with the word “let,” which automatically takes on a spirit of invitation. When we are reborn as believers, we INVITE the Lord into our lives. … Continue reading

This here, celibacy thing…

I have three approaching deadlines (one is today), so I really should be working on that. The pressure of looming deadlines motivate me. Ha! The procrastinator’s mantra! Whatevs. I’ll get to it. Lately, I have been practicing abstinence. Sometimes I catch myself calling it celibacy. I think of Jill Scott’s “Celibacy Blues” and I can … Continue reading


So I packed my stuff up in Sept 06, hopped in a Budget Truck and made my way to the proverbial city of dreams. Needless to say, it has been more and less than my dreams within a 2 year span. Like anyone, I have had my ups and downs. I have been able to … Continue reading